“Cheating is never to do with how attractive you are.” – Marie Helvin
Have you ever thought if your partner is cheating on you? No one likes this to happen but in some cases it really does. How would you know if your partner cheats on you?
Look out for these signs of them seeing someone else:
1.Protective of their phone
If your partner was not protective of his/her phone in the past and if there’s a sudden change in their phone habits. There were no issues with phone locks before but seem to be overly protective of their phone.
2. Often going home late from work
If your partner was usually home at a certain time then suddenly they are frequently late to go home and stays at the office. There’s this thing as overtime but you definitely know when they do that and if its out of the regular pattern. You may want to check it out.
3. Showering as soon as they get home
Unless your partner works for something that he/she might get all dirty like construction or roofing. Taking a shower right after reaching home might be away of scratching out evidence of seeing someone else. This might be a sign, especially if showering habits suddenly changed.
4. Their s*x drive is down
S*x drive usually fluctuates due to stress, nutrition, lack of exercise and a lot more. However, if in the past your s*x life has been regular then they start losing desire for your attention, it may be that they are getting it from someone else.
Psychotherapist and author Tina B. Tessina, PhD., says, “Most women cheat because they feel emotionally deprived, and men are unfaithful because they often feel sexually deprived.”
5. They’re not as present during s*x as they used to be
If your partner is still having s*x with you but not having the same type of s*x. If your s*x went from exciting to enjoyable to a few minutes under the covers, that may be a sign that your partner is just trying to appease you while having their enjoyable s*x elsewhere.
6. They pay more attention to their appearance
This isn’t always the case – especially if your partner has discussed with you that he/she wanted to change his/her appearance. However, if your partner went from not giving so much thought on their appearance to suddenly looking like a peacock, they might be impressing someone else.
7. They’re unexpectedly trying something new in bed
This doesn’t automatically mean that your partner is cheating on you. Usually, if something new is going to play part it’s going to be discussed between you two. However, if your partner starts kissing you in a way seemed to be learned or without discussing it first then it might be a sign.
8. You can never get a straight answer
If you partner from being all honest and open went to being flirty and playful, it’s probably a sign of hiding something from you. Fetching a straight answer may be impossible, even a simple how their day went at work.
9. They’ve picked up new habits
These habits may be anything out of the blue; being overly protective of their phone, not picking up calls. These new habits will often be hard to explain and when brought up your partner seems to be defensive.
10. You’re feeling ignored
One of the biggest sign that your partner sees someone else is when you feel you are no longer appreciated in the relationship. While your partner covers up from what he is hiding, he does not notice that they are treating you differently.
11. Your partner is avoiding your friends and family
If your partner was very active in social gatherings started to show little or no interest in such, this could be that they are avoiding a fallout. They may feel guilty for seeing someone else and seeing family members and friends reminds them for that.
Most of these signs are behavior wise. Always have a strong evidence first before lashing out. make your efforts in keeping the fire burning between the two of you. Deal with things in a discreet way.
Source: Power of Positivity